Hi Everyone,
Today I woke up early and completed all my routine work so fast… Was looking at the movies website and thinking to watch some good movie… I m not a big fan of SRK but somehow I clicked on SRK movie page… suddenly my eyeball got stuck on “Kabhi Alvida na kehna” … Oh my gosh, such a boring movie and such a indigestible concept… How people go for an extra marital relation when they are happy enough with the current partner???
I thought for a while and then decided to portrait my views in an article. I know it’s a very touchy topic and everyone is having different opinions for this. I have seen many couples in my life who are very happy with their life but want some extra fun and that extra for them is having an affair with the good old buddy, colleague or the person who met last nite in a club.
I thought for a while and then decided to portrait my views in an article. I know it’s a very touchy topic and everyone is having different opinions for this. I have seen many couples in my life who are very happy with their life but want some extra fun and that extra for them is having an affair with the good old buddy, colleague or the person who met last nite in a club.
When we think practically, it seems to be a rubbish to get involved in such a relation when u r already committed to the other person but at some point of time “It’s a one’s opinion, one’s decision, or I can say one’s liking”!!!
According to one of my friend (He would not appreciate if I give his identity ;)): ” It's interesting and can be fun and it's typical thing to happen when the two in marriage live alone and spend most of the time just with each other. Eventually they start getting bored of each other... and... Extramarital relations start taking place!
Sometimes the above few lines happen to be a very true!!!
For some ppl “Its all about Cheating”, For sm ppl “Its all about having fun”, For some ppl “ Its all about exploring some new facet of the relation” Here exploring something new doesn’t mean to get involved in some physical relation but sometimes it also means to involve emotionally with the other person.
Having an affair is always a bad decision for me but can u imaging some ppl who are stretching their relation just bcoz thy are married.. no matter how happy are they but they don’t wanna end up that relation.. for thm I guess, having some new partner in their life who gives more happiness, more care, more love is a wise decision. I am not telling that this kind of affairs are good enough to continue with but they are good for certain kind of relations… finally everyone needs to be get loved and cuddled!!!
At my point of view: “Once you cheat, you destroy the unspoken trust that is the glue upon which all relationships are founded. I knew that without that bond, any relationship is bound to fizzle. “
I don’t feel proud of being involved with someone who belongs to someone else but at the same time when you are broken soul and you hold onto the person who has the patience to listen to your sad story, make sense of your irrational thoughts and teach you what it means to love isnt selfish and it cannot be called bad but its good decision.
So finally, to conclude this topic, I would say Its all about taking a wise decision.. If you are happy with your current partner then think twice before getting involved with the other person… But If you sense trouble in your relation, you should seek counseling. Always give second chance.. An affair wont resolve anything!!!
If you are in extramarital affair, you can never justify urself.. no matter what brings you in that and what encouraged you to do so.. The relation and ppl both would never be appreciated…
Before posting this article, I have asked my hubby for his opinion and he concluded very wisely “You can go for it if you feel our marriage doesn’t sound successful ;)
